Archive for month: January, 2017
There is a shared belief amongst many men and women today that I found to be limiting their ability to attract or keep a passionate relationship; they believe that after all the effort put into their love life, love will eventually fade. And so, they fear being in love. For some reason, this belief is so strong to the point that the majority of people I’ve interviewed and coached mentioned that sometimes it scares them to be in a relationship.
When faced with life’s day to day challenges, it is for people to find the right answers, but it truly is difficult for them to ask the right questions. I’ve often found that the common human being today will do his best to evade the internal challenges he faces inside of himself and will go guru hunting, information fishing, or opinion sniffing. It is seldom for that kind of person to look inside and realize that the difficulties and challenges he faces in life are directly linked to or caused by a set of intricate and reoccurring identity conflicts; in other words, a never ending war.